My wife and I had a fight yesterday. It was a serious one. The first of it kind. I usually do not talk much, or exchange words, but yesterday,  I was like a barking bull dog. I was giving her word for word, and sending my words in such a way that it stung her heart like a bee.

At a point, my wife broke down in tears and started shouting and crying like a mad dog. I simply wore my cloth so I could leave the house and go where I could have peace of mind. But she chased me to the sitting room with a bowl of water and emptied it on me.

Frog Baby Bedding

My anger boiled. I was soaked to my pants. I ran after her and she fell on the cushion. For the first time in my life, I raised my hands to slap her. She folded herself like a snake and shielded her face in fear.

*Then I stopped.*

I took in a deep breath and exhaled. I left her in the sitting room and walked back into the bedroom to change.

My wife was shocked. While I walked out of the house, she sat like a log of wood, frozen to her feet. She had never seen me raise my hands in an attempt to hit her before. This was the first time.

Negative Anger

I felt guilty at some point. I felt guilty for attempting to hit my wife with my hands. I  was restless. This was something I had never done before; not to her, or to any woman in my life.

That evening, while returning home, I stopped and bought her a bouquet of flower and chocolates from a shop. When I got home, she was not sitting in the sitting room as she usually does.

I knew she was upset. My wife always ran to welcome me the moment she hears me drive in. But that day, she left the door open for me.

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She had served my dinner on the table but was not even close. I dropped the flower and chocolates on the dinning and walked into the bedroom in search of her. When I got into the bedroom, I found my wife on her both knees holding an apology card in her hands. She had written and placed a cardboard on the wall which read *”PLEASE FORGIVE ME BABY.”*

I gazed around the beautiful design and decorations in the room. As an event planner that she was, I could tell that this was a perfectly planned apology. The soft solo music that played, made my heart melt like an ice dipped in hot water.

Reducing the Roadblocks of Anger

*”I am sorry, I pushed you too far.”* She said.

I walked to my wife and lifted her off the ground. I kissed and embraced her. I led her to the dining and handed her the flower and chocolates I had gotten her.

*”I am sorry for everything.”*

My wife smiled. We embraced ourselves, and that evening it was like our romance was kindled back. We found ourselves chasing each other like puppies round the house.

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While I went to bed that night, I asked myself. Will the result had been the same if I had lost my temper and beaten my wife blue and black?

*Definitely not.*

*As a man, your ability to control your emotions at the highest peak, even when you’ve been pushed to the wall, shows your ability to handle certain circumstances tactfully when they arrive.*

Just like my father will always say, any man who can handle a woman, make her happy, and still be happy himself, can handle any problem in life.

Why not Watch an Anger Management Movie?

*I am not saying women are problems. I am saying women just need to be understood the right way, treated like angels, and loved beyond extreme measure despite their flaws.*

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